Saturday, June 28, 2014

Young And In Love 2.24.14

Dear Rhonda and Dr. Cheri,

I am 15 years old and have a boyfriend who is five years older than me. I was pregnant by him and I lost the baby. He blamed it on me. He said I exercised too much. He was the one who said I had to exercise every day so I wouldn’t get fat like his other girlfriend who had a baby by him.

He went to court over money he owes her. He sometimes pushes me or shoves me and it hurts my feelings, but he doesn’t seem to care one minute and the next minute he is telling me how beautiful I am and how mature I am for my age. I don’t want him to leave me. I love him.

Signed,

Young and in love

Dear Young and in love,

This man is an abusive bully who only cares about his own self. You need to never ever see him again. Don’t explain why or let him manipulate you by telling you flattering things. He does not love you and it does not seem he is capable of loving anyone.

You and your children will be bullied all of your life if you stay with him. You deserve more than this in your life.

Turn to God and find out your worth now before you can’t see how wonderful you are and the great life that is possible for you.

It is possible to set a good example for others around you by doing this. All things are possible with God.

You reached out for help and that is because you are capable and desire a better life. That is wonderful and mature of you!

Do not have sexual relations with anyone else until you are married and you know that your husband loves you. You may have to wait for ten years or longer, but in that time you will discover all your talents and become educated.

Concentrate on serving through your community organizations, school clubs or church activities and your beauty will shine from within too. You’ll attract a man who is capable of giving and caring and most of all has integrity and respects you.

Signed,

Rhonda and Dr. Cheri

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